Cyber Bullying

Cyberbullying: Intervention and Prevention Strategies


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December 2009, Volume 38, Number 4 1

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Brian was a shy, quiet boy who was labeled a social outcast by his classmates. A group of students created an online chat room devoted to making fun of Brian, and they invited him to join, telling him that they wanted to be his friends. This harassment drove Brian to depression and he eventually dropped out of school.

Jessica and Ashley were best friends until they started liking the same guy. Jessica posted information on a socialnetworking website that Ashley had told her in confidence. She also posted embarrassing pictures of Ashley. Almost everyone at school read about Ashley’s secret and saw the pictures. Ashley was humiliated.

American teens make frequent use of the Internet for such activities as communicating with friends,

finding information for school assignments, and downloading music. Recent research (e.g., McQuade &

Sampat, 2008) suggests that nearly all youth in middle and high school with access to a computer at

home or school will use the Internet and that this represents a rapid increase over the past decade. The

number of teens with online profiles, including those on social networking sites like Facebook and

MySpace, has also increased, and there is evidence that many of these teens who access the Internet at

home make efforts to keep their activity away from parental scrutiny.

In 2006, national law enforcement leaders estimated that more than 13 million children and adolescents

ages 6–17 were victims of cyberbullying (Fight Crime: Invest in Kids, 2006). Survey data shows that a

significant number of youth report that they have harassed someone online (McQuade & Sampat,

2008). Research has identified characteristics of youth that predict cyberbullying as well as the

consequences of such harassment. It is critical that parents and educators understand the characteristics

of cyberbullying and strategies for prevention.


In general, cyberbullying involves sending or posting harmful or cruel text and/or images using the

Internet or other digital communication devices, such as cell phones. Cyber bullying may occur on

personal websites or it may be transmitted via e-mail, social networking sites, chat rooms, message

boards, instant messaging, or cell phones. Cyberbullying occurs most often when children are at home,

but it can also take place during school. To their credit, many schools have made good use of filtering

software that can often prevent cyberbullies from utilizing school computers to bully other students.


Most cyberbullying falls into one or more of the following categories:

• Flaming: Online fights using electronic messages with angry and vulgar language

• Harassment and stalking: Repeatedly sending cruel, vicious, and/or threatening messages

• Denigration: Sending or posting gossip or rumors about a person to damage his or her reputation

or friendships

• Impersonation: Breaking into someone’s e-mail account and using it to send vicious or

embarrassing material to others

• Outing and trickery: Engaging someone in instant messaging, tricking him or her into revealing

sensitive information, and forwarding that information to others

• Exclusion: Intentionally excluding someone from an online group (Willard, 2007a)


Cyberbullies are just as likely to be female as male and are more likely to be older teens rather than

younger. Similar to traditional bullies, cyberbullies tend to have poor relationships with their caregivers.

They are more likely than nonbullies to be targets of traditional bullying and to engage in delinquent

behavior and frequent substance use. They are also more likely to be frequent daily Internet users.

A cyberbully may or may not be a person the victim knows. Cyberbullies can often remain anonymous,

making it difficult if not impossible to tell who the abuser is. They may work in cahoots with their

friends, making it even more difficult to determine who is doing the attacking. Although there is no

clear evidence that youth who engage in traditional bullying are also prone to cyberbullying, it does

appear that some victims of physical harassment engage in cyberbullying as a form of retaliation against

their tormentors.

The STOP Cyberbullying program (Wired Kids, Inc.) describes four main types of cyberbullies:

• The ‘‘Vengeful Angel’’ does not see himself or herself as a bully, but rather as a vigilante, as he or

she often becomes involved trying to protect a friend who is being bullied or cyberbullied.

• ‘‘Power-Hungry’’ cyberbullies want to exert their authority and control others with fear, and they

are often victims of traditional bullying. Some people call this ‘‘Revenge of the Nerds’’

cyberbullying, because these bullies are often physically small and targeted by their peers for not

being ‘‘cool’’ or technologically skilled.

• ‘‘Mean Girls’’ cyberbullying often occurs in a group. The perpetrators are usually bored and looking

for entertainment.

• ‘‘Inadvertent’’ cyberbullies do not intend to cause harm; they just respond without thinking about

the consequences of their actions.


On the continuum of risk, some youth are more susceptible to instances of cyberbullying than others.

As with cyberbullies, victims are as likely to be female as male and are more likely to be older teens than

younger children. Approximately half of the victims of cyberbullying are also targets of traditional

bullying. Victims are generally unpopular, isolated, depressed, anxious, and fearful compared to their

peers. Those at risk are more likely to be searching for acceptance and attention online, more

vulnerable to manipulative techniques, less attentive to Internet safety messages, less resilient in dealing

with a difficult situation, less able or willing to rely on parents for help, and less likely to report a

dangerous online situation to an adult (Willard, 2007a). Youth most at risk for cyberbullying include:

• Vulnerable, immature, or socially naïve teens who may lack sufficient knowledge and skills to

engage in effective decision-making

• Younger teens who may have overprotective or naïve parents but who likely have healthy peer

relations and good values

• Youth who have temporarily impaired relations with parents and/or peers and are currently highly

emotionally upset

• Youth who face major ongoing challenges related to personal mental health and disruptions in

relations with parents, school, and/or peers


The emotional harm that may result from cyberbullying is significant. Victims of face-toface bullying

often experience depression, anxiety, school failure, and school avoidance. Targets of cyberbullying

suffer equal if not greater psychological harm because the hurtful information is available to the public

24 hours a day, aggressors are often anonymous, the victimization is continuous and inescapable, and,

since it is often difficult to remove posted material, the information may be publicly accessible for a

long time. Teens may be reluctant to tell adults about the abuse that is happening to them because they

are emotionally traumatized, think it is their fault, fear retribution, or worry that their online activities or

cell phone use will be restricted. In its extreme, cyberbullying can lead to youth suicide and externalized



No one should have to endure cyberbullying. It leaves children and teens frightened,

upset, and perplexed. They tend to not know why this attack is happening to them and

often are unsure as to who can help them resolve this troublesome and often scary

situation. Combined efforts of school and home are needed need to prevent, reduce, or

eliminate cyberbullying.


Victims of cyberbullying should not retaliate, as this may promote more intensive harassment from the

cyberbully and may make it unclear as to who originally instigated this aggressive, hurtful behavior. All

victims of this type of behavior need to alert a responsible adult as soon as it occurs. Depending on the

severity of the cyberbullying, the following steps should be considered by victims and their parents:

• Calmly and strongly tell the cyberbully to stop the harassing behavior and remove any offensive

material from future communications.

• Ignore or block the communications.

• Make a hard copy of the material the cyberbully has posted and send it to the cyberbully’s parents

to solicit their help in ceasing this problematic behavior.

• Clean up the instant messaging buddy list to help reduce the number of other people who have

access to the victim’s e-mail location.

• File a complaint with the website, Internet service provider (ISP), or cell phone company.

• Enlist the help of the school psychologist, school counselor, principal, or school/police liaison


• Contact an attorney if less drastic steps are ineffective.

• Contact the police if the cyberbullying includes threats of harm.

Since cyberbullying occurs most often while children and adolescents are at home, parents can be a

great resource in preventing instances of this type of bullying. The following steps should be


• Keep home computer(s) in easily viewable places, such as the family room or kitchen.

• Talk regularly with children about their online activities and Internet etiquette in general.

• Talk specifically about cyberbullying and encourage children to notify adults immediately if they

become victims of cyberbullying.

• Tell children that you may review their online communications if there is any reason for concern.

• Help children understand that cyberbullying is harmful and unacceptable behavior.

• Emphasize expectations for responsible online behavior and make clear the consequences for

violations of Internet etiquette.

• Consider establishing a parent–child Internet use contract.

• Beware of warning signs that might indicate the child is being bullied, such as reluctance to use the

computer, a change in the child’s behavior and mood, and/or reluctance to go to school.

• Consider installing parental control filtering software and/or tracking programs, but do not rely

solely on these tools.

• Encourage antibullying legislation and Internet safety policies at the state, local, and district levels.

Many states have enacted antibullying laws that address all forms of bullying in schools. Further,

some school districts have instituted computer use rules and protocols.


Educators should determine the prevalence of cyberbullying, conduct a threat assessment in response

to reports of cyberbullying that might involve violence or suicidal behaviors, and develop programs,

policies, and training to prevent and stop cyberbullying on campus.

Conduct a cyberbullying needs assessment to identify the incidence of cyberbullying in the school,

including where it occurs and any factors that discourage reporting. This might involve creating a

survey and distributing it to teachers, administrators, and parents. The results can be analyzed and used

to pinpoint areas of concern. It might also be a good idea to conduct a structured interview with the

principal to obtain more information about the school’s needs and the principal’s goals with regard to


Make a plan to implement a threat assessment for any report of cyberbullying that raises concerns

about the possibility of violence or suicide.

Include cyberbullying in the school’s comprehensive antibullying program to educate students and

ensure that all personnel respond appropriately when cyberbullying is reported. Review written policies

related to students’ use of the Internet and mobile communication devices to ensure that they address

on-campus cyberbullying. Also review the district’s Internet use policies to ensure effective student

supervision and monitoring.

Provide colleagues, parents, students, and community members with information about preventing and

responding to cyberbullying. Faculty and staff should also be trained in early warning signs that may

identify victims of cyberbullying, including rejection or isolation from peers and being the focus of

more traditional forms of bullying. Be adamant about looking for the circulation of pictures, video

clips, sound files, and any other items used to ridicule and defame students’ characters.


Fight Crime: Invest in Kids. (2006). Cyber Bully Teen. Report prepared by Opinion Research

Corporation. Retrieved January 16, 2009, from


McQuade III, S. C., & Sampat, N. (2008). Survey of internet and at-risk behaviors. Report of the

Rochester Institute of Technology. Rochester, NY: Rochester Institute of Technology. Retrieved

January 16, 2009, from

STOP Cyberbullying. (n.d.). What methods work with the different kinds of cyberbullies? Wired Kids,

Inc. Retrieved January 15, 2009, from


Willard, N. (2007a). Educator’s guide to cyberbullying and cyberthreats. Eugene, OR: Center for Safe

and Responsible Internet. Available:


Center for Safe and Responsible Internet Use:

Cyber Bullying: Bullying in the Digital Age:

Enough Is Enough: Making the Internet Safer for Children and Families. Tips on talking to your child

openly and honestly about cyberbullying:

Guidance Channel: See the archives for February, 2006 and June

2007 for special articles on Internet safety.

In Memory of Ryan Patrick Halligan:

Stop Bullying Now: Take a Stand. Lend a Hand. What Adults Can Do: Cyberbullying:

STOP Cyberbullying:

Willard, N. (2007b). Cyberbullying and cyberthreats: Responding to the challenge of online social

aggression, threats, and distress. Champaign, IL: Research Press.

Wired Safety:

Ted Feinberg, EdD, NCSP, recently retired as the Assistant Executive Director of the National Association of School Psychologists in

Bethesda, MD; Nicole Robey, MA, is a school psychology intern with the Cumberland (MD) County Schools.

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